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Meeting with Latin Lover

It finally happened. Me and my online Latin lover. In Real Life.

Despite me being in his town, despite being there for a week chances to meet were high and low at the same time. Because of my and his work schedules, his business trip during this week, him being married and having quite tough his private life schedule, where any random girl can hardly be penciled in.

It was the second try to meet.  And the second chance we usually give to ourselves, not to other people. So true.

In short: it was the most lively, relaxed, unconstrained meeting with someone from online dating site. The shortest too. Generous welcome kiss, hugs, kissing in the cafe people watching us, and then the rest.

The chemistry was there and the top quality of it. Oh God, it was awesome. I almost have been forgotten what it was all about when you go with the flow… We all know the moments when the wave comes and takes you, it can blow your mind, you don’t know where you are and who you are. You suddenly forget your name and you don’t know theirs, it’s not important where is his wife and where is my boyfriend,  when eyes and hands are busy exploring each other.  No decisions, no forecasts, expectations, no promises, no excuses, no plans, no regrets, just plain pleasure of meeting. In situations like this  both  are overwhelmed with emotions, passion and feelings. Both don’t lie to each other, neither to  themselves, both are in love every minute that day at that time.

You know what I am talking about: waves, tornado,  lightnings or any other natural disaster – you can name it as you wish. Love can be momentary. Short. Exciting and memorable. It’s   amazing  when you feel loved and adored, despite it lasts only 45 minutes. Or less. Without sex.

Is there anything to do with the country? Further to the south – more joy of life?  Southern  guys can be with you for a limited time, but act like you are the biggest love of their life. They are capable to love someone whom they will never see again…Lucky bastards! Northern girls should learn this!

P.S. BTW, we looked as a nice happy couple, if the mirrors didn’t lie…


Magic of online fairy tales for Wi-fi knights and offline Cinderellas

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My online  Latin lover…A sweet creature, romantic, masculine, hot,  poetic, well read, well travelled, the man who is a wonderful partner for meaningful and long conversation. My ping-pong partner or marry me. or  Desired. Letters of lust.

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Post #100: My heroes and their goddess

photo(20)Woman is strong till she meets her Weakness.

Strange enough, I do attract certain type of men. Different –  past rockers, hippies, bikers, scientists, writers or promising youngsters. Different facial shapes, hair or skin colors, heights and weights, nationalities and eating preferences.

All of them – with dimple chin. Not very visible, but  always present. I never noticed that rule, until my friend, who studied faces reading once pointed it out.

“A dimple on the chin, the devil within.”
―Pope Paul VI

It’s interesting what in my face attracts them? I have nothing very special except my broken nose and distinct lips.


“You gonna be my woman”, he said the next day. Even before first kiss, before long romantic walks, before our past stories and future plans, before dinner, sex and breakfast.

Man is much harder when he meets his Weakness…

Do I want to be his Weakness? I doubt. Really.


Clasification of communication

Emails are for statements, messages are for emotional tweaks, chats are for unfiltered responses and all video stuff is total distraction – words and meanings are not important, as looking at is.

I am not against any form of communication, visual is fine,  just verbal is verbal and you don’t have the chance to read again. And I like to read and read it…


Not a date. No peonies. No victory.

I spent 3 hours with him today.  Chatting and bit of drinking. We are from two planets, from two leagues, circles, from different generations. But both were open to listen and to hear.

Former squatter in London, alternative music fan, regular pot-smoker, blond, young guy who lives the life  in easy and joyful way and goes with the flow. He wants to be a Hollander 🙂

He asked for one kiss and got it. As admitted in his text message after our meet up:  he was too shy to kiss me more than once on the cheek.

It was like talking to a stranger who is next to you on the train. As soon as train stops, people go their own ways.

His way was to downtown. My way was  to Spain – Chile game on FIFA World Cup.  Bad day for Spain. Tomorrow will be better anyway – Spain will get The New King.  Amigos, you  just can’t have everything – you get either peonies or roses, victory or king.

Good bye Mr. Age Gap! Good luck.

Bad luck on local date and mind blowing peonies

My local date, I was so sure about yesterday,  was bad.  Actually it haven’t happen today. Bad luck? Youngsters are not reliable? Am I  on his priority list? Definitely not. He is not on mine either.

Weird enough, when people work within walking distance. 15 min on feet is more than enough for both to meet in a nice place after working hours. Mr. Age Gap   failed to make a grand entrance. Minus ten points. Or even more.


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