His last woman

13899821013_95fbcec6f7_z– You were his number one on this priority list, and even more, you were actually the only one on his list!

– We can say a lot in past tense, but  counts  only what we do in present tense.

It sucks to be the last and the most important woman in someone’s life for 66 last days and to get that statement delivered in words after…. not in actions before…


Relationship cake, crumbles and cherry

Courtesy of IMP

Even the best relationship one day starts to loose its passion and starts to be heart-tearing routine. There are people who like known and safe things, situations,  answers before questions, vacations the same time of a year and at the same spot on Earth with the same company. They enjoy driving the same road to the office and can do it with closed eyes.
Everything is still amazing for them because it’s predictable.
It’s like a cake of relationship you eat daily.

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Adventures and security: 3-in-1?

My new friend engaged in conversation about adventures and security – 2-in-1? I was drinking wine on warm and rainy evening in the  bar on the bank of the river in a city I’ve never been before. That city had everything to do with the topic of our conversation, which was flowing  slowly   and relaxed  like the river nearby.

My new friend  was selling  crap like  “age is on your mind, and if you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter”. ( Nice saying, but it’s only a very  thin self protecting  shell or reason to justify our weird behavior –  my inner voice rebellious,  but extremely low this time), so I kept listening to  him very carefully.
Him:  Adventure comes from being curious, not from age, even though it is true that young people are usually more curious about everything than mature people.

Me: It’s good, if your brain don’t mind your age, so your body don’t mind it either.  I met lots of curious mature people as well, but the burden of life is always visible on their shoulders. They gained different experience already and in most cases they  irreversibly lost “the unbearable lightness of being”,  which is so exciting, attractive, inspiring and rarely present in mature man…

Him: I am very curious about this “certain” concept of relationship that you are missing. I am sure you were not thinking about a young second man outside the secure relationship, that would be too obvious.

Me: The set up was a classic ménage à trois


Overboiled eggplant or fake it till you make it

shoesHim: – How do you feel today, honey?

Me:  Bad. Like parboiled vegetable. No, like  over-boiled eggplant. Mushy, weak, colorless, washy, soft…

Him: – But you still look great!

Me:  It’s all about pretending, dear. At certain age ( as mine)  we choose make up and attire not to show our mood, but to contradict with it – just to make others think we look and feel superb:) It pays back in all cases – we fake  it till we make it, and at the end of the day or even earlier we feel great!

What is your recipe to look better than you feel?

It made my day :) #2 or being a treasure

Me:  No response please.  I will read tonight and reply tomorrow.
I feel like I am stealing too much of your time.

Him: You are not taking my time.  I am just using it to get to know you. Since you are a treasure it is time well invested I think. If I ever change my mind you will be the second one to know.

 I know THAT day will come, but it made my today,  so who cares 🙂 Cheers!

in vino


Dialog #7 on horse and Prince Charming

photo(3)A dialog from my internet dating archive. This guy first mentioned this in  his profile on OKC.

Me:   – You know, woman don’t want reality, they want miracles, fairy tales, Princes Charming:) Lot of lies and lot of soap bubbles:)

Him:  – If someone expects a Prince on a white horse, I am definitely the horse.  But the hard working  and loyal one…

He was definitely the horse. Old one. Talking more than working,  And not loyal at all.  I should definitely look for pedestrian Prince Charming in the future and pay no attention to horses.  But I will keep an eye out for stallions. For inspirational purposes only!