It finally happened. Me and my online Latin lover. In Real Life.
Despite me being in his town, despite being there for a week chances to meet were high and low at the same time. Because of my and his work schedules, his business trip during this week, him being married and having quite tough his private life schedule, where any random girl can hardly be penciled in.
It was the second try to meet. And the second chance we usually give to ourselves, not to other people. So true.
In short: it was the most lively, relaxed, unconstrained meeting with someone from online dating site. The shortest too. Generous welcome kiss, hugs, kissing in the cafe people watching us, and then the rest.
The chemistry was there and the top quality of it. Oh God, it was awesome. I almost have been forgotten what it was all about when you go with the flow… We all know the moments when the wave comes and takes you, it can blow your mind, you don’t know where you are and who you are. You suddenly forget your name and you don’t know theirs, it’s not important where is his wife and where is my boyfriend, when eyes and hands are busy exploring each other. No decisions, no forecasts, expectations, no promises, no excuses, no plans, no regrets, just plain pleasure of meeting. In situations like this both are overwhelmed with emotions, passion and feelings. Both don’t lie to each other, neither to themselves, both are in love every minute that day at that time.
You know what I am talking about: waves, tornado, lightnings or any other natural disaster – you can name it as you wish. Love can be momentary. Short. Exciting and memorable. It’s amazing when you feel loved and adored, despite it lasts only 45 minutes. Or less. Without sex.
Is there anything to do with the country? Further to the south – more joy of life? Southern guys can be with you for a limited time, but act like you are the biggest love of their life. They are capable to love someone whom they will never see again…Lucky bastards! Northern girls should learn this!
P.S. BTW, we looked as a nice happy couple, if the mirrors didn’t lie…