To love independence

– You love your independence, don’t you?
– Don’t judge too fast.
– Am I wrong?

– Nor right, neither wrong. We love what we are comfortable with. If we are not comfortable,  we are about to trade it for something else to feel better.
– Good long did it take you to develop this approach?:)

– It’s easy,  if you don’t lie to yourself.
– If it was that easy, then majority would adopt it.. Most people prefer to lie to themselves.

Being dependent means delegating responsibility. People like it. Independence means facing your own shit and dealing with it without losing self-confidence. But being dependent or independent is worth nothing if you feel humiliated by any of them.